Society. Everything and yet nothing at the same time. Today, sadly, we live by the rules and standards dictated by Society. We, ourselves, let and flourish the stereotypes about women, men and anything or anyone else that surrounds us. Everyday, we fight for equality, we fight for no racism and we fight to stop bullying. Ironically, by fighting and protesting in a very twisted way, we promote these even more. We set up frames and shape up boxes and try to fit in. But why are we trying so hard to fit in, if we can just be ourselves. So what if someone does not like the way you dress, talk or has a prejudice against your job?
The question that you should be asking yourself is AM I HAPPY? and if the answer is YES, then who care about what the others have to say? If the answer is NO, then follow your heart and set up a plan for yourself:
- What makes you feel unhappy?
- How can you change it? Can you change your job? Leave a toxic relationship?
- Get a haircut?
It can be anything you like as long as it makes you feel happy. You have to remember that you do not owe anything to anyone in this life apart from yourself. I am strictly convinced that to live a happy life, you should make yourself happy no matter what it means and even if it is something so simple as having pasta for breakfast.
Remember that we make up part of the society that we live in today. If we change the way we want to be, there will be a respective shift in society.